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This is just a bet of vantage, some of you may agree with it or not, or maybe not even care, or perhaps even learn something.

I hate the way the world has changed and you can't go anywhere with your best friend without people thinking your some gay couple.  Actually its worse!  I can't even go with my brother anywhere without people thinking we are a gay couple.  Hey we just so happen to like to go see the movies at theaters, or go eat somewhere.  Where we grew up that was just what hetero guys do, and brothers got along with each other.  I don't know why all of a sudden people think only gay people do that.

I also hate it when people assume I'm gay because I don't have a girl friend.  I mean what the F#&*$#!!?  Just because I'm not sucking on a girl don't mean I am gay.  I don't suck on a guy either.  I'm not interested in sexual trends at all.  The reason I don't go out with a girl is because I don't want a relation ship.  And most girls don't play games where you blow stuff up.  Why hang out with someone that you have nothing in common?

Now to get things straight, I don't have a problem with gay or bi people as a person.  I only have a problem with there sexual ways.  I see it as un-natural and a sinful style of life.  However I will not treat them any different because All are sinners in some way or form, Even me, so I must not judge them.  Otherwise I'm just a hypocrite that should also be judged by God himself.  And besides, I know several people here on DA that are Bi or gay.  Other than that life style, they are nice people to talk to.

However what really burns me is when they are always in your face about there ways.  Not all of them do this, but many do.  Some even try to get laws changed.  They say they want the same rights as others but they already do, they just want more attention.  Others try to make it a hate crime when they get hurt by a hetero guy so they get judged more fiercely.  But aren't all crimes against people hate crimes technically?  And most of all, taking down the "Don't Ask and Don't Tell" policy.  I think people are confused about that.  Because that was done to protect both kinds of people.  There were always gays and bis in the military.  They always have served equally as any other solder.  But the hetero does not need to know that the guy he is sleeping next to is a gay.  There is absolutely no reason anyone needs to know your sexual orientation in the military.  They are there to defend the country, not find a mate and screw.  And some hereto in the military are crazy and might bring harm to a person when he misunderstands a touch. I find that the only reason they took Don't Ask Don't Tell off is because the gay community wants attention and force the hereto to accept there life style as normal.  They don't care how uncomfortable it makes a man that sleeps in a tight barracks with a bunch of other men.

Well that is about it.  Don't know how many of you would have read the whole thing, some may stopped reading when they thought this was going to be "offensive" and stormed off mad.  And the way the word offensive is being played now had me mad too.  Whether offensive or not, truth is truth.  I swear sometimes I don't think I'm human, because of the why people act.  But to those that so happen to be gay or bi, I sure like to hear that not all gays shove there life style in everyone's face.  And understand, I don't hate any of you as a person.  Heck several of the people I talk to alot are bi.
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:iconuzuharu-ninja:
Uzuharu-Ninja Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2012
-thumbs up-

We should talk more often Kiyo. We think a lot alike.
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:iconlord-kiyo:
Lord-Kiyo Featured By Owner Jul 27, 2012
thanks, yeah this world is messd up.
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the1SAR Featured By Owner May 23, 2012
I've never been in that situation before, but... I get what you mean. I like hanging out with my sister, and I don't have a boyfriend. People shouldn't assume someone's gay by who they hang out with.
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Lord-Kiyo Featured By Owner May 23, 2012
That's right.
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vcgal123 Featured By Owner May 23, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
Honestly, the way I see it, the world defines the word 'offensive' as 'personal opinion'.

I totally get where you're coming at bro, I really do. I do however sit on the other side of the fence on the opinion (I am not a lesbian myself, but two of my best friends are) but hey, I don't dissagree with you. A lot of the this shit out there on gays is just for attention, and yeah, it's really fucking stupid.

I wish I had some example to offer like Seraph-sama down in the comments, but sadly I don't. I guess all I really want to say is that even if you and I don't sit on the same side of the gay argument, I agree with your opinion and I think you have every rage to rant about it like this, for lack of a better word. I am a virign too, and I'll be eighteen this summer, and where I live, it's rare to be a virign at fifteen, let alone eighteen, but I suppose it's worse in bigger cities.
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Lord-Kiyo Featured By Owner May 23, 2012
I think you get the general idea of it ^^

Im fine with gays as long as they don't harass me.
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vcgal123 Featured By Owner May 24, 2012  Hobbyist General Artist
And that's good. The biggest issue with hate crimes, those to do with gays, is that people just don't see gays as people. If you don't want to support homosexual relationships, that's totally up to you; it's the people who hate the person because of nothing but their sexuality that I dissagree with.

Kind off topic, but that's alright.
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Seraph-sama Featured By Owner May 23, 2012
Dude, I know EXACTLY the feel. I don't have a girlfriend mostly because I never really cared about it. I wonder why this stupid society thinks that i must bang a girl every 5 seconds to prove I'm a man otherwise I would be gay. My OWN SISTER asked me if I was gay just because I never dated.
As for the religious aspect of it (I don't know how is your spiritual side, but I'll tell you how is mine), I want to be a virgin when I get married (23 year old virgin straight males are rare these days) and I don't have anything against homossexuals, in fact catholicism says that gay people should be treated with kindness and love (the only thing that is wrong is the ACT not the person). But many "Catholics" don't know their own belief and go saying retarded things like "God hates homossexuals" (He only hates the ACT, not the homossexual). The funny thing is that when I say that to people their first reaction is "sexual drive is a natural instinct of any human. Deny that is wrong" and my answer is always "I love candies, chocolates and everything sweet, but I know it damages my body because I have diabetes. So I must eat candies because I have the desire or should I use my brain and get a hold of my actions?"
I hope this helped somehow.
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Lord-Kiyo Featured By Owner May 23, 2012
The Christian way is the same about that, but like you said, not all live up that way. And I am a virgin as well. And I will remain as so.

Now that candy thing is a good one, I have to remember that one. You should totally post that up or something.
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Seraph-sama Featured By Owner May 23, 2012
Thanks. It's just that we have lots of desires all the time to do myriad of things (whether they're good or bad), but we ultimately have the final choice if we'll fulfill the desire or not.
I think there wouldn't be such a clash between christians and atheists if BOTH sides stop attacking each other and start dialoguing and respecting each other's life choices.
My best friend is agnostic and I think of him as my brother and we deeply respect each other's choices. people with different views can live peacifully with each other.
God bless you.
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